Unless anyone has something they feel should be offered never mind.
I have enough memory and raw power to open just about everything at once... Not actually true as some games take a LOT of resources but not far off...
I opened everything that I suspected might use an SQL Server and then used Programs and features to attempt to remove all instances of the SQL Servers. All except for version 5 removed just fine. 5 refused to remove as it was said to be in use so I'll just let it be.
Actually I was a bit surprised at how well my system handled this. Here is what I had active at the same time.
Apache Air Assault
Combat Flight Simulator 3
MS Flight Simulator 10
Diablo 3
Expressions Web
Dreamweaver 8
Everything worked just fine without issue.
I wonder what it is about SQL Server 5 that seems to be needed but that's OK as I seem to have gotten rid of a lot of dead weight.